Archives For Positive Attitude

In  my last two posts I talked about the NFL Playoffs regarding your passion and personal discipline.

Today let’s move to your workplace.

What do the following have in common?

Gossip.

Criticism.

Finger pointing.

Lack of motivation.

Chronic complaining.

Answer: Poor attitude. We can spot it from a distance. We despise it in others, yet we tolerate it in ourselves.

Attitude, the third and final part of your personal PDA, is all important.

Yet all of us are susceptible to a bad attitude. Actually it can happen in an instant.

Life has a way of doing that to us. Our car breaks down or we get a cold right as we are beginning a vacation. Yes, things like this can happen at the worst possible time.

Our attitude affects us, those around us, our view of the future, our assessment of the present, and how determined we will be in facing new challenges.

Our attitude is one of our greatest assets. You know that already. If you could choose between two people with whom to work, little skill/great attitude, or highly skilled/bad attitude, my guess is you are going with the great attitude.

Skills can be taught. Attitudes not so much.

Your attitude is either helping you or hindering you.

The good news is you can choose your attitude.

Choose wisely and live at a higher level. You will be happier and so will those around you!

IMG_0089Several years ago our family took a road trip out west. Actually we have taken several. On this particular trip we were visiting the Badlands in South Dakota. To set the stage it was hot and unbearable weather to camp in.

So we planned to leave and drive east until we found a hotel to stay in. Unfortunately as I returned to the car, anxious to leave and get out of the heat, I noticed we had a flat tire.

Of course, flat tires are not a big deal.  That’s what spare tires are for. However, I’m not a fan of changing tires in 100 degree temperatures.

I was able to talk the rest of the family into leaving, much to their chagrin. We had brought along a 12-volt air pump so I was able to put some air in the tire. I knew that with the heat, if I kept driving the tire would stay hot enough to retain adequate air pressure.

Now I am not recommending you try that unless you have the heat in your favor as well as the size of the hole in your tire. Let’s face it, if you have a slice in your tire this will not work.

Be that as it may, we pumped up the tire and jumped on to the interstate. Exits are not close together, but I did stop at the first exit to check the air pressure. It was fine, so on we went.

We finally found an exit with a really nice hotel. In fact, we actually fell in love with the place. It had very clean rooms, large indoor swimming pool, and a nice breakfast.

To top it off there was a full service gas station right across the street which made it easy to get the tire fixed before anyone got up the next morning.

Too often in life we allow setbacks or unfortunate circumstances to dictate our mood. Yes, I have actually succumbed to such things.

But if we had not had the flat tire we would not have found a hotel chain that we wound up staying at again at a future time.

Not only that we had a great time and all of agreed that the flat tire turned out to be a blessing in disguise.

We are several days into 2014. Like me you have your trip planned out, but have you thought about the setbacks? They are coming, and you may have to rewrite your travel plans.

iStock_000019630934XSmall_smilefaceIn my recent post, Life Can Be Cruel, I mentioned three things that seem to compound the intensity of our sufferings. Joseph experienced all three and stands out in the Bible as one who maintained a positive attitude and reflected a kind, and uplifting demeanor through it all.

For many of us it is much more natural to become angry when we do not get our way.  Or we become very impatient after a ninety second wait at our favorite fast food joint. If someone really ticks us off or highly offends us then we get bitter.

Our series of misfortunes and mistreatment run the gamut. When we survey Joseph’s life I wonder if we just gloss over it figuring he must be the exception.

But the Bible is clear that the stories were written to encourage us and give us an example to follow.  With that in mind, three words come to mind as we take a closer look at Joseph’s life.

1. Walk.  Joseph knew that he was walking with God.  There was no obvious sin in his life which brought on his personal hardships. While he was not perfect, he was not living under a cloud of guilt.

2. Willingness.  One of the hardest truths to accept is that God often uses suffering to refine us and shape us.  In the NT Peter mentions this in one of his letters.  As the saying goes, “No pain, no gain.” Yet how many of us find ourselves willingly suffering and trusting in God’s purposes?

3. Witness.  This no doubt gets overlooked way too often.  One reason we keep singing and smiling is to show God’s strengthening grace.  You can’t explain it, but you can experience it, and expose it.  What a testimony to those who do not know the Lord.  What a testimony to fellow Christ-followers.  What an example for our kids.

There is too much at stake to allow the hardships, the unjust cruelties, and the slander of others to get us down and keep us down.

Three simple words to keep you smiling when life is down.