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New Year’s Resolutions: Are We Missing Something?

How many of us charge into the New Year determined that this year will be different?

So we set off and begin setting goals, some ambitious but unattainable.  Some marginal but uninspiring.  Some too far in the future and unclear.

Nonetheless, we set out writing down how this year will be different.

Weight and physical fitness.  Check.

Get out of debt.  Check.

Date night once a month.  Check.

Stop smoking.  Check.

Now that we are one week into the New Year are we satisfied that we are on track?

Or is it possible that we have overlooked the most important of all?

What about some Soul Resolutions?  Quite simply, these have to do with seemingly intangibles of life.  Although in many respects they are not.

How many of us have addressed our irritability with the proper resolution?  Oh sure, we say things like, “This year I am going to be less irritable.”  And that’s it.  We have done nothing to address the issue other than simply “Say it.”

For the record go ahead and add to the list things like moodiness, pride, obnoxiousness, resentment, and anger.  I can’t tell you how many people I know who will continue to struggle with these unless their soul changes.

All of us will continue to damage our own lives and those around us if we neglect our soul.

With that in mind let me give you five quick hits for your soul.

1. Spend fifteen minutes a day reading your Bible and praying.

2. Pray for people you know who are hurting and serve them in any way you can.  Sometimes all you can do is pray.

3. Connect with others regularly in order to share your burdens and also allow them to share theirs.

4. Give regularly and generously to the church you attend.  Yesterday at New Hope we heard the testimony of a family who began tithing two years ago and how it changed their lives.

5. Pray for those you now who do not attend church and invite them when appropriate. Once again, at New Hope I am starting a series January 12 entitled, Faith in the Midst of Pain and Suffering.  At the core it is a message about the soul.  And it will be very helpful for anyone you know.

Those five things are not hard to do.  They do not take a lot of time.  The downside is you cannot measure the health of your soul in a week’s time or sometime a year.  As I mention earlier, we have a family that now two years later one of their soul resolutions is very visible.

As the New Year gets underway in earnest this week, and you look over your aspirations for 2014, ask Am I Missing Something?

About the Author Mike Henderson

I am Mike Henderson, pastor of New Hope Church, husband of my best friend, and proud father of five. I like to hike with my wife, golf with my kids, play basketball, read books, and start new projects. My purpose for this blog is to help people and to give people hope.

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