Archives For January 2013

skiingAbout thirty years ago while working for my dad the unexpected happened.

To set the context, you need to know my dad was all about work.  He never stopped for lunch.  In fact, in his earlier days as a crane operator, while the others were eating lunch he wiped the crane down.  He felt like he could eat lunch while operating the crane.

Once again, my dad is in his element when he is cleaning or working.  To most of us we would say that dad never took time to enjoy life, but he was enjoying life if he was working or cleaning something.

To him those things were fun.

Well, one day my brother Mark, Scott, Mike, and I were working together on a job when dad pulled up.  We had not been working long so it was still early.

Dad jumps out of the truck and says, “Let’s go skiing!”

Totally unexpected.  Skip work and go skiing?  Are you kidding?  That simply never had happened before.

To this day it remains one of the most memorable days in my life.

I have skied many times.  But only once was it memorable.

And what made it memorable?  The unexpected.

Images_PrideAs the San Francisco 49ers head for the Super Bowl, one story caught my attention.  It was about the quarterback and his tattoo artist.  It’s a great story, but at the same time illustrates why pride should simply not exist. The story begins in the Philippines with a broken home.  Through a series of events the mom moves to the US, gets married, and eventually brings her son to Nevada to live.  Reno, to be exact.

One day the quarterback of the University of Nevada football team walks in to get some ink for his skin.  They hit it off and the tattoos kept coming until Kaepernick had his arms covered along with his chest and back.

But tattoos are everywhere.  No big deal right?  Yes, until K becomes the starting quarterback for the 49ers midseason.  Now he is on TV every weekend.  The tattoos begin to get noticed.  The team keeps winning, makes the playoffs, wins the NFC title, and is now in the Super Bowl.

Guess who else is getting tons of attention and business?  You guessed it.  His tattoo artist.  Currently he is booked three months in advance and now requires deposits.

As a result of his success should the tattoo artist be lifted up with pride?  Think about it.  He had nothing to do with his family life in the Philippines.  He had no control over his mother getting married and bringing him to the states.  And certainly nothing to do with living in Reno.  To top it off he had no control over a star quarterback walking into his small shop one day.

Kaepernick seems to be handling the instant notoriety very well.  He is careful to thank God on a regular basis.  In fact, his tattoo artist has noticed how grounded and humble the quarterback is.  It’s always refreshing to see someone hit it big and realize how little control he actually had over all the circumstances. Kaepernick was adopted.  He excelled at three sports.  What if he had gone into baseball?

Just one different turn and no one hears about Kaepernick or the tattoo artist.

So much of life is like that.  We didn’t choose our parents, what country to be born in, and what occupation our parents chose.

That leaves me with at least two quick thoughts on why pride should be more scarce, and humility more prominent.

First of all, who wants to hang out with a prideful person?  Exactly.  No one.  So why are some people so prideful?

Secondly, people are not responsible for what they are prideful about.

Think of all the things people point to about themselves.  Now add up how many they are in control of.

Your number is probably close to 0.  That’s humbling in and of itself, which underscores why there is no room for pride!

 

Person build houseAs we enter another year there is at least one word many people would love to see describe 2013. That is the word stability.

Think about it. One of the chief concerns of the Federal Reserve is stable prices.  Of course, I’m sure we all want stable prices. But we want even more.

We want stable….

Marriages

Income

Emotions

Finances

Relationships

Families

Jobs

And the list goes on.  But what’s the secret to being blessed with stability? When building a house it is typical to brace walls until they are securely fastened to other walls. Otherwise they are susceptible to wind.

However, for us as individuals what is the secret to stability in our lives? What is it that makes us “blessable” regarding stability?

Let me suggest that it is related to your attitude towards the Bible.

Psalm 1:1-4 (NASB)  “How blessed is the man….his delight is in the law of the LORD…He will be like a tree firmly planted by the streams of water…in whatever he does, he prospers…the wicked are not so, But they are like chaff which the wind drives away.”

2013 may brings all sorts of storms and disruptions into your life.  While the winds may blow into your life, decide right now as the New Year starts, that this year you will delight in the Word of God. You may be pleasantly surprised by the stability you experience in 2013.